How often do people dream of a rich, interesting life. It is not so difficult, between you and a beautiful life there are only 10 obstacles.
10. Lack of priorities
If you grab at first for one, then for another, take on all kinds of nonsense, and then it turns out that you do not have time to make a complex project, then you have problems with prioritizing. In 24 hours a day, they are not enough to realize all your fantasies. So take some time and prioritize. All cases can be divided by urgency and importance. First, solve all urgent and important issues regarding your professional career. Be sure to do self-development. Do not spare this temporary resources. Having prepared a list of actions, and determining the time period for their implementation, you will realize that some of them only take away your strength. This does not mean that you must constantly work, denying yourself an extra minute of rest. Just learn how to allocate your time.
9. Unfinished business
People like to put off solving complex issues for later. They are tormented by conscience, but they are not able to force themselves to do it. But unfinished business is pumping energy. A man cannot move forward, they pull him back. Complete all unfinished business, solve all outstanding issues, keep all promises. If something doesn’t work out for you, and you understand that you are not able to keep this promise, refuse it. Yes, you may be embarrassed, but you will be free. Nothing more will bother you. You can move forward unhindered.
8. Pleasing people
It’s hard for you to refuse a friend who once again asks to sit with her child. You stay again after work to help a careless colleague. There are a lot of examples, but if you don’t know how to say no, you’ll have to spend all your time and energy on resolving other people's problems. By catering to other people, you will not achieve anything. Think, first of all, about yourself and your desires. Do not be shy, do not pay attention to how your friends or colleagues will respond to your refusal. Learn to defend your boundaries. You will notice that you have much more strength left over yourself.
7. Ignoring the present
Some people are fixated on the past, some draw rainbow-colored pictures of the future. They do not think that life passes here and now. The past cannot be returned, no need to delve into it and think what would happen if you made another decision. Of course, it is worth thinking about the future, but in order for it to be happy, efforts must be made in the present. Want to be slim tomorrow, give up dinner today. You dream to buy an apartment, start making money and manage money properly. Do not wait for Monday, change your life without waiting for the right moment.
6. Inadequate reserves
If you have insufficient reserves, you have little energy. You just have nowhere to take it from. Do not get hung up on money and success, take time and your spiritual development. Read good books, watch movies, do what you love, talk with loved ones, and often visit nature. Do what gives you energy. You must have met people on your way who are striving for their dream, not giving yourself a moment of peace. They work hard, but what will they remember in old age? No, not money and not work, they will remember the best moments of their life. And most of them will regret that they spent little time communicating with their families and their own development.
5. Concealment of deficiencies
If you dream of a wonderful life, you will have to be honest with others. Do not hide your bad qualities, they will certainly come up, only in a situation that is not very pleasant for you. Ask people not to tell you secrets if they don’t know how to keep secrets. Warn colleagues that you can sometimes be unrestrained, so let them not be offended, you have nothing wrong with them. Of course, flaws will not decorate you, but honesty often captivates. Admit your shortcomings, and everyone will forgive you.
4. Self-deception
Being honest with others is not so easy, but it’s even harder not to lie to yourself. Surprisingly, people often fool themselves. They make promises to themselves, but do not fulfill them. Instead of criticizing themselves and trying to change the situation, they pretend that it should be so. Often they hide behind the phrase: "Life is one, everyone does it." You are alone, you should not care what the others are doing. Do not be fooled if you stumble - admit it to yourself. Just do not feel sorry for yourself and mourn your fate. After the wrong step, give your best, but try to correct your mistake.
3. Energy leaks
Avoid energy leaks. Do not attach importance to minor troubles, do not be nervous, do not break down on others. Determine what sucks your energy. It can be communication with a person unpleasant for you, it can be your new job, problems that you cannot find a solution to. There are many options. Try to remove this obstacle. If it is not in your power, then negotiate with your inner self. Calm yourself, look for the cause of the problem, solve it, find additional sources of energy. Try to take everything calmly, you will not be able to influence the world around you, so is it worth worrying about this.
2. Desires instead of planning
If you sit and fantasize, your desires will never come true. Let them become your incentive. Make a detailed plan. Write what you intend to achieve, limit the time frame. If the goal seems unattainable for you, break it into sub-goals. Every evening, set yourself the task the next day, do not forget about control. If you accomplished everything you wanted, you can praise yourself. You are one step closer to your dream. If not, then think about what your goal matters to you, if you cannot put your will into a fist and work to achieve it. Understand, you will be inactive - nothing will change.
1. Complaints instead of questions
Few in the world are those who do not like to complain. This is much more convenient, there is no need to decide, talk, ask, demand. You can simply complain, so that the object of complaints does not even assume that it is. They complain about husband, wife, sister, neighbors, evil rock, doctors, officials, and the president. All in your hands. If something does not suit you, talk, express your complaints. Perhaps he does not even know about your problems. Do not complain about life. For some, it is much harder. So they are happy with what they have and want to achieve something else. It depends only on you whether you will live or exist.